Starting the Conversation – A Guide for Carers and Families

Starting the Conversation

Talking about the future with an ageing loved one is difficult. It can be a sensitive issue and attempts to approach the subject can be uncomfortable, stressful, and even, unsuccessful. Starting to discuss the issues and scenarios that may face the whole family as early as possible provides reassurance to everyone involved that your loved one’s needs and wants will be met as they age.

Starting these conversations early also means primary carers are less likely to burn out – they will be more likely to enlist the help of others to access care and support services when needed. This guide provides some tips about how to approach these conversations with your older loved one to ensure their wants and needs for the future will be met and everyone involved in providing care will understand their responsibilities.

This guide features information about:

• Planning Ahead
• Tips for Family Conversations about Ageing
• Red Flags – Knowing When More Help is Needed
• Sharing Care
• Tips to Help Siblings Negotiate Caregiving
• Overcoming Resistance to Assistance
• Conversation Starters
• Professional Support
• Later Life Planning – Getting Prepared